

Gary & Amanda
Friday to Saturday,
17-18 October 2025
Kota Kinabalu, Sabah
Malaysia
Our Story
He said...
I've always seen Amanda as this charming, confident and independent woman. She is a leader at church and work, popular and ambitious. Honestly, she was the kind of person I thought was way out of my league (and still is!).
I didn’t have the courage to approach her. I convinced myself it wasn’t the right time or that she was just too good for me. But one day, I had this lightbulb moment. A voice echoed in my head saying: "If you don't take action, someone else will. This is something you can’t let slip away.” So, I gathered my courage, said a little prayer for strength, and went for it. And everything just fell into place.
That’s how it all started. There were definitely moments where I questioned: "What have I gotten myself into?"
(Amanda: Excuse me?)
But looking back, it turned out to be the best decision I’ve ever made. She complements me in ways I never expected and played a huge role in helping me grow closer to God. We share the same vision, and we’re ready to achieve even more together. If I could do it all over again, I wouldn’t hesitate for a second!
I’d choose her every time!


She said...
I remember him as the guy who always came up with last minute excuses to skip cell group. So when he replied to my Instagram story years later, I was curious but cautious. Still, I invited him to a hike (with friends of course) and we started chatting more.
He asked me out for the first time, and to my surprise, he was warm and so easy to talk to. One dinner led to a late night conversation, and suddenly, I was seeing a different side of him - one that I'd never expected, but deeply appreciated.
What really stood out wasn't just the comfortable conversations - it was really the way he began to take his faith seriously. That mattered to me more than anything, cause I had always prayed for a partner who shares the same heart for God.
I guess this is what I'd call God's perfect timing.
As time goes by, we grew - not only in affection, but in trust and understanding. God didn't just bring us together,
He came in between us in the best way possible, to shape us and our relationship from inside out.
We are truly grateful for every step of this journey, and for all the people who have walked alongside us.
We thank God and all of you for bringing us to this day!
The Wedding Weekend
With grateful hearts, we are delighted to invite you to the celebration of our marriage
Friday, 17 October 2025
Church Ceremony
Saturday, 18 October 2025
Lunch Reception

Ceremony
Friday, 17 October 2025 | 10:30am
BCCM Petagas Church
Jln Linsuk Bersatu, Putatan
- Save your tummies for lunch -

Reception
Saturday, 18 October 2025 | 12:30pm
Hakka Hall, Level 2
Lot No. 26, Signal Hill Road, Tanjung Lipat
- Swing by early for pre-lunch drinks -
Gary . Amanda x James . Ester
Getting There
Arrival Notes
Attending both events | 17 & 18 October 2025
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We recommend arrival on 16 October 2025, Thursday
Attending lunch reception | 18 October 2025
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We recommend arrival on 17 October 2025, Friday
From Singapore
Direct flights from Singapore are available
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Scoot - Departs 8:45 AM
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AirAsia - Departs at 12:10 PM
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Flight duration - 2.5 hours
From Malaysia
Easily accessible via domestic flights to Kota Kinabalu from major cities
From Other Countries
Fly into Kota Kinabalu International Airport (BKI) via
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Transit in Singapore
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Transit in Kuala Lumpur

Once You're There
Local Transportation
Grab is widely used and convenient in Kota Kinabalu
Make sure you have the app downloaded if you haven't already!
Where to Stay
There're plenty of places to stay in Kota Kinabalu - whether you prefer the comfort of a hotel, or the vibe and cosiness of an Airbnb. We recommend staying near Imago Shopping Mall for extra convenience!
Hotels
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The Luma Hotel (beside Imago)
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Hotel 17 (beside Imago)
approach us for special rates
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Hyatt Centric Kota Kinabalu
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Shangrila Tanjung Aru (kids-friendly)
We've pinned some hotels to make your search easier, just click below!
Airbnbs
If you'd like help finding an Airbnb, feel free to PM us for a contact who can help you find a nice spot!
What to Eat
Kota Kinabalu is full of local delicacies -
especially known for their seafood and pork noodles - Sang Nyuk Mee(生肉面)
Here're some places to help you start your food adventure!
Where to Go
There's more to Kota Kinabalu than just food.
You can chill at the Sunset Bar, wander around Gaya Street, go island hopping if you're a beach person, or head up to Kundasang for some cool mountain air.
Meet our Wedding Party

The Real Brother
Best Man
James

Benny
The Pure-Hearted
Groomsman

JJ
The Hustling Chill Bro
Groomsman

Eric
The Rock
Groomsman

Zit Man
Groomsman
The Childhood Companion

Kelvin
The Vibe Master
Groomsman

Xiao Zhang
The Adventurous Spirit
Groomsman

Shum
The Football Mentor
Groomsman

Rachel
The Real Sister
Maid of Honour

Jing Wen
The Single & Avail
Bridesmaid

Ester
The Sister-in-Law
Bridesmaid

Jane
The Kinder Friend
Bridesmaid

Joen
The Doppelgänger
Bridesmaid

Sing Chee
The Ever Thoughtful
Bridesmaid

Kristel
The Constant Joy
Bridesmaid

Samantha
The Childhood Bestie
Bridesmaid
